My two penneth

Yesterday Facebook and Twitter imploded - Kristen Stewart's alleged infidelity with an older married father of two, fingers were pointed, people were unfollowed, covers were retracted then reposted, papz and photoshop were in cahoots, death threats were made and eventually apologies were issued.

This is my feelings on the matter - I am gutted for Robert, Liberty Ross and her children. To be humilated so publicly must be soul destroying. Robert, I just want to hug him so tight (I hope his mum is doing that right NAO!) It was plain for the world to see how much he adores/adored Kristen, and I think it is horrible for him, that she has had to declare her love for him after being caught out.

This brings me to my first musing - why be so ninja with Rob and then make out with someone who wasnt Rob in broad daylight?, Geez the girl cannot fart without the paps knowing - so why did she think .......oh hang on thats right she didnt *facepalm*

Now - death threats against her - really? What about Rupert? it takes two to tango folks, its not fair to paint her as an heartless bitch without painting him as an evil moustache twirling villian who seduces young girls. I reckon Kristen has very probably wrecked her career - she will be forever known as the 'One who cheated on Rob' she is labelled for a lifetime. I think Studios will now think twice before hiring her - I guess she got what she wished for boy oh boy did you screw your life over Mission Accomplished!

Yesterday I wanted to hunt her down for hurting the Boy, my mamabear was on high alert. I hope that he comes out of this with his head held high, but again he is going to be damned whatever he does - if he takes her back he is whipped, if he dumps her he is heartless.

For me cheating is a hard limit - I could forgive but I would never forget and I would never trust again, and that is the heart of the matter, I could not wind myself up wondering what was going on and who was he speaking too, I would not do that to myself. Trust is everything! If Rob decides to take her back it is his choice entirely and as long as he is happy at the end of the day then thats all that matters.

I support Rob wholeheartedly what ever he decides to do. I wish Rob and Liberty lots of love and strength in the face of their public humilation - I also hope that the press will give them time and space to think, but I think that is a hope to far, If any member of the paparazzi try and provoke Rob or Liberty into reacting and trying to catch it on camera - be warned the karma fairy is watching.

Kristen and Rupert have made decisions that will punish them for the rest of their life, I just hope this train wreck is resolved as painlessely as possible for everyone as soon as possible.

Crikey

Its been a lifetime since I last blogged and yunno - I missed it a lot! so here's to more bloggage from me

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GIDDY!!!!!

The Vomit Comet hit me

and how!!!

My little vomit comet was actually acute appendicitis  - cue emergency op, 5 days in hospital, 5 days IV antibiotics, 5 days antibiotics when I came home, a 5-6 inch scar and a post op wound infection.

All I can say is thank FUCK you only have one appendix and I would also like to say a huge FUCK YOU to my perforated appendix, you are a bastard, you nearly killed me, I have a second chance and a scar that scares the kids !

Okay Okay I admit defeat

A blog a day was a big stretch, but I managed 6 months with various catch ups. Real life has booted my arse and will be for the foreseeable future, SO I am admitting I am defeated BUT I am not giving up altogether I am  aiming for at least a blog post a week, more if I am so inclined.

Oh and another resolution of mine is to stop planning!! Kids at my mums tonight = time for Stew and I, Stew is currently in bed after puking till 2am. I'm shattered and pondering who the vomit comet will hit next :0/

Funnies

Okay - Blogger is not happy

So will be back later - 6 to go

LOL CATS

Summer holidays

Starts at 15.15 tomorrow - YAY for not having to get up and rush in the morning. POO for 7 weeks, yes SEVEN weeks of all 5 of us under one roof. I have a list of stuff that needs doing so hopefully that should keep us all occupied! I had decided to do the hols without drinking, but I may end up in the nut house, so will stop drinking in Sept to have a clear head for uni

more music

and this one

This one makes me want to buy Roller boots ( I had some in my yoof and i'm hanjering for more)

music I like

LMFAO - I shouldnt like this but I do

My Nokia

Went to phone heaven, taking loads of phone numbers and stuff with it. T-Mobile wouldn't let me upgrade early without loosing the fab contract I am on. So I jumped ship to ORANGE and snagged a fab deal and this little beauty

 How did I survive without a blackberry before now?

Today Lancaster looks like this

Wet, Wet, Wet

Diagnosis Harry part two

My Gorgeous sunny boy has Aspergers also known as HFA (High Functioning Autism). Harry scored 13/22 on his ADOS which definiately puts him on the Autistic Spectrum (any score over 7 and he would have been on the spectrum).

Stew and I were a bit blindsided to be honest, believe me there is a BIG difference between thinking and knowing. I had a teary moment or two the night of the diagnosis and woke up the next morning thinking - Fuck It!!!!!

Now we move forward and help Harry any damn way we can - I am Mama Bear hear me roar!!!

17

to catch up - had a real disinclination to blog. Have been feeling better maybe thats why?

Tomorrow

Harry has his appointment at Long lands - I'm hoping we will finally get the diagnosis we have been waiting 3 years for, but I'm really not trying to get my hopes up.

I feel quite bizarre I don't know whether to laugh or cry really. We will be out of limbo but it will be all official either H has ASD or I am a shit parent.

Either way I'm making sure I have plenty of wine on tap!

This song was bouncing about my head last night

and let me tell you it is not conducive to a good nights sleep!!!!

Pic time!

Well done mum!

I'm very proud of my mum, after many years or smoking (40 yrs) she is in the process of stopping smoking :0)

In the past 3 weeks she has only had 2 and half ciggies.

Skinny on zyban is a sight to behold though! She is like a sober drunk - aggressive yet forgetful LOL

Well done mum, we are very proud of you and yes we will still tease you  :0P